Need to tell the story of what is going on right now, need to tell the abridged version: for the past several months my (seven) siblings and I have been struggling with the rapid progression of my father's Alzheimer's. On Friday, my brothers moved him from Indiana (where none of us live) to Minnesota (where my sister and I live). An emotional day. He has changed even from when we visited him a few months ago.
So strange when I climb in bed at night and realize my father is only five miles away. We have not lived in the same place in over 20 years, since the summer after my senior year of college. I am so so thankful for a family that could work together to make the move happen (587 emails + 1 conference call).
I just couldn't seem to gloss over my reality for one more yippy-skippy post. On the bright side, May is Dreamland's anniversary month and I have good things in store: a look back at 17 years in business, a look ahead at new ventures, and a whole week of giveaways starting May 11th.
Eric and I keep your family in our prayers, and think of you often.
That is a beautiful photo!
Posted by: Dar | May 05, 2009 at 10:26 AM
What a wonderful tribute to your father, that you & your family could work together to keep him safe & loved! I have an aunt with Alzheimer's so I know a bit of what you're dealing with. I will keep you & your family in my prayers & thoughts.
Posted by: Nancy | May 05, 2009 at 12:31 PM
My grandfather has Alzheimer's, and my father & stepmother are going through something similar right now. They would like my grandparents to come live with them but are getting push back because my grandmother thinks they would be burdening them. I understand how devastating it can be to watch someone's memory deteriorate like that. I'll be thinking of you!
Posted by: Abbie | May 05, 2009 at 04:16 PM
it must be incredibly difficult sometimes to straddle the extremes of your reality during such an emotional time.
thank you for sharing and i will be keeping you and yours in my thoughts.
Posted by: pen* | May 05, 2009 at 04:39 PM
I am thinking of you and the past joys and sadness you must feel right now. You are in my thoughts, Gina.
Posted by: Kristan | May 05, 2009 at 08:46 PM
May your time together be meaningful and full! I'll be praying for your family - my mom and uncle are going through this with my grandmother, and to be honest, I've not been strong enough to help. You are strong, and couragous, and full of love, and he will feel this. :) Big hugs!
Posted by: Tammy | May 08, 2009 at 09:23 AM
Sending courage to you. I know what it is like to see your parent suffer with Alzheimers.
Posted by: Dana J | May 13, 2009 at 12:39 PM